Girls Club: Re: What type of mother is this?

Dear Aunty Temi,

I really bless the lord for having someone like you in the lives of us teenage girls but I think you should also please help the boys too. They are really making life difficult for us. Thanks ma.

Folashade

Dear Aunty Temi,

I’ll be glad if you can set up Girls Club in my village. My village is Orisunmibare, Ondo not far from Owena Ijesa. This is because girls here are fornicators prone to abortion. Please help! Also, I am determined to be a virgin till marriage but my friends say I’m a fool and that I’ll have menstrual pains if I don’t get deflowered.

Olanike, 22

Dear Temilolu,

I like the way you combined your tip on raising girls-Being a role model with Jane’s story and the caption- “What type of mother is this?” Thanks a lot. You can’t give what you don’t have, so parents must brace up to the challenge of raising morally-upright children. We will do our best, God being our helper.

Mr. Blessing Aghojare

My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,

What shall we do about these boys harassing and making life difficult for so many of you? Hmm…Sigh! Well, you all need to put God in the forefront and ask Him for wisdom, self control and a sound mind and you’ll be able to deal with the opposite sex and end up with the best of the bunch and you will live happily ever after in Jesus mighty name. AMEN! As for my sisters in Orisunmibare village, I bind the spirit of lust and sexual pervasion in their lives. I imagine how stagnant a lot of the girls are and the very little or no education they have because of the siege of the devil over their lives in form of pre-marital sex. I imagine so many babies carrying babies and adults around not batting an eye or trying to put things right because it has become a norm and almost a competition in the village. I bet a lot of them can’t even write good English. How then can they write or pass an entrance examination into college or university and eventually make a good living and make something useful out of their lives. However, whether the government cares or not to ensure every child is in school, because Olanike has asked for help on behalf of her sisters, things would certainly change in Orisunmibare. Girls Club would be visiting soon to see how it can help the girls align with God’s divine agenda for their lives but before then, may the fire of the Holy Ghost sweep through Orisunmibare and may the power of Pentecost recreate the lives of the girls in Jesus mighty name.AMEN!

Girls…girls…girls, how can anyone fool you into thinking your virginity can cause you menstrual pains? Sex cannot stop menstrual pains, so please be yourself and don’t let anyone push you into what you may later regret. Do you know a lot of deflowered girls wish they were still virgins after they’ve had so much of it and gotten their bodies badly abused and hearts shattered by guys. P-u-r-lease don’t join the band wagon. Remain as intact and unspoiled as you are and you’ll be glad you did. May God help you.AMEN!

Tips on raising girls in a morally-decadent world (Contd.)

Contentment

According to Paul in 1 Timothy 6:6, “Godliness with contentment is great gain.” If you’d recall the tail end of last week’s tip, I stated that only the presence of God can ensure a morally-upright upbringing. Without the presence of God or some consciousness of God it is difficult for anyone to be contented because the worldly spirit which is so greedy and crazy about amassing material things much to the detriment of others and the salvation of our souls is in contention with the spirit of God. A parent who is not contented can never raise a contented child. Likewise, a parent who lacks discipline and over-indulges a child can never raise a contented child. It may surprise you that a lot of girls from wealthy backgrounds still run after rich men and are ready to give them the greatest satisfaction with their bodies just to have the latest designer bags, luxury cars, trips abroad etc. However, though rather scarce, we can still find poor girls who are contented with the little they have and would never do anything immoral for money in spite their desperate situation. This is as a result of their upbringing.

Dear Parent,

You never can tell what would happen to you tomorrow. If you have to live the opposite side of your opulent life (God forbid), can your children survive without going astray?

To be continued.

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